You Are Not A Bondservant To A Church, But To Christ
You are not to be a bondservant of a church or any leader. You are to grow to become a bondservant of Christ alone! Giving yourself over to a binding committment like never leaving a church for life actually is a
sly substitute for binding yourself to Christ. Submitting to a church or it's leaders
above all else is IDOLATRY.
You have actually disobeyed the first commandment. Following blindly along with whatever some men say is God's will is
like yoking yourself to them and being led wherever they go. This produces weariness and burdens too heavy to bear. There is ONLY ONE we are to yoke ourselves to and that is Christ! Our taking His yoke promises to take away stress, burdens, and weariness. Of course, the Bible speaks of being yoked to our spouse, but that is a little different.
Being manipulated into
making commitments to disciplers, leaders, and churches
that are only meant for God is enticing IDOLATRY. People start confusing real faith and submission to God with faith in and submission to the church leaders. Loyalty to God is very personal and involves decisions and choices that must be between the individual and God and may not necessarily be supported by some Christian leaders.
God doesn't want our highest loyalty to men or a church but to Him. He wants us to know His Love - its length, breadth, height, and depth - and respond of our own volition to trust Him implicitly. And, out of that, willingly become Christ's bondservant.