https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/communication-success/201601/7-signs-covert-introvert-narcissistIt is my personal opinion that the pastor who abused me and my family is an introverted narcissist. This article might help you understand if yours is too. The introverted narcissistic pastor is a little harder to spot than the regular grandiose narcissistic pastor, which gcc also has plenty of.