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I didn't realize this thread was here (or remember it). I was just clicking on the latest happenings to catch-up...
O.O
Anyway, not a well-formed philosophy about this stuff, simply summation of fixes:
1. Understanding people have different drives.
Praying to God to please the spouse is fine, practicing and figuring-out where failing (including by asking) and disciplining yourself (I know, laugh--it is hilarious) is better. Perhaps get a couple's book on positions with illustrations? ...
2. A sneeze, but with consequences.
Sometimes tingly.
3. The sneezes are often definitely better--particularly since you can do them in public any time with nobody getting O.O about it. I love tickling nose hairs.