Hey everybody.
so I recently left a GCC church that I was attending for 2 years. For the last year there, I was dating a guy who also (still) goes to that church. While my eyes were being opened to this counterfeit church, they were simultaneously being opened to how wicked this guy I was dating it. So I broke up with him and left the church about 2 weeks ago.
I found out that he had been lying to me, which he did from the beginning of our relationship, about his porn addiction. So I told him it was over. He was also into consistently turning to alcohol when life was stressful, gambling, and chasing after more money. So it wasnt a hard decision for me.
He is a very forceful and proud person, so he hardly takes no for an answer. Knowing this, I blocked his number and blocked him on social media platforms so he would leave me alone and hopefully respect my wishes. He acts like he owns me. When I told him I wanted to break up he kept saying “that’s coming from a place of hurt... I know you don’t mean that” - just so narcissistic and disrespectful!!!
I’ve told him to leave me alone. To not come to my home or my work.
He just showed up at my apartment and knocked on my door for 15 minutes and when I didn’t answer he came over to my window and knocked for 10 more minutes. I just kept praying and praying that God would send him away, and eventually he left.
What should I do if he does this again? Or if he shows up to my work? Or stalks out my place and waits for me to get home and stops me on my way in??? What do I do?